Biggie said it in five words:
It was all a dream.
This shop is a culmination of years of self-healing. Through meditation, journaling, crystal work, and other practices, I was able to hone my inner guiding compass. The decades of conditioning (parental, societal, colonized, capitalist) started to dismantle, and the process continues. Maybe you’re going through something similar. Maybe these tools can help you too.
The stones.
All stones used in the shop are natural. This means that there may be some variations between what is pictured and what you receive. Know that they will not be vastly different and it’s all due to the unique artistry that Mother Nature offers.
The malas.
All malas are handcrafted with 108 stones, and a guru bead for Japa meditation (meditation with your breath and a mantra). Tassels are handmade unless otherwise indicated. Are you looking for a custom made mala? Click below.
Shipping. Exchanges. Returns.
Shipping
Shipping, delivery, and pick up options are available dependent on your location. I am currently a one person show, so please allow 5 business days for items to be processed and shipped. Custom items may take longer. Domestic shipping may take up to 7 days. International shipping may take up to 30 days. Free domestic shipping for orders $100 or more.
Returns and exchanges.
Due to the nature of these products, refunds are not available. Should your product arrive damaged, please contact me right away. Exchanges can be arranged and shipping costs for an exchange are to be provided by the customer.
Lost and Stolen packages.
Lavender and Loneliness is not responsible for packages that are lost mid transit. Should this unfortunate instance occur, please place a claim with the courier company responsible.
Please note.
While stones, crystals, and gemstones can support strength, mindfulness, and healing, they should not be a replacement for medical or psychiatric treatment.
So… why the name Lavender and Loneliness?
I used to joke with my friends that I would one day have a shop called "Bicycle & Lavender" just to sound like the most hipster-est thing that you ever did see. So when I opened an online shop I kept the Lavender because I genuinely like it. And I added the Loneliness portion because my mindfulness practice, including creating malas, was a response to my depression. My loneliness was the catalyst for my shop's creation and I wanted to identify that.
We are conditioned to suppress our low-vibrational feelings because of the discomfort they carry. But sometimes, part of your greatness comes from facing that discomfort. Sometimes, when you stop swimming against the current, the river can take you to some fantastic places.
Thank you for visiting my shop.